Sunday, January 20, 2013

The Wrong Hope, is it right?

I usually don’t post pictures or quotes, but this one got me thinking. Why do people do so? Why men or women do things to make the other person fall in love with them? It seems so simple. You make the other person love you, because you love that person. If you do not love them or if you already know you can never love them, why encourage? Why awaken their love? Why give them hope, the wrong hope? How is it so easy to hurt the other person?

Sometimes, people fall deeper for the one who do not love them. So whose fault is it after all; The person, who keeps falling deeper even when they know the other person do not love them? But is it possible to keep feeling deeper without the other person’s encouragement? Hope is what keeps us moving after all. You may say “no" million times, but that one caring gesture is all it takes to give her Hope.

Maybe the quote is right, perhaps only a man can awaken woman’s love with no intention of loving her. Women’s love is so different than men's. A man is not in love when he say he is not. Men can analyze, think, make right decisions, decide if they want to love or not. But a woman, a woman may think she is not, she may say she is not, yet she feels something inside. Perhaps, thats why women’s heart breaks the most, because when she falls in love, she just does.

If only a man could feel like a woman and a woman could love like men do, there would be less broken hearts around. But since thats not possible, if you know what she feels for you and if you know what you don’t feel for her, spare her. Let her go. There is no point encouraging and awakening her love. The truth is, no matter what she says, she is going to fall deeper as long as you give her hope. And Hope does not  come only with words. Hope is what keeps us moving. But there is something called “Wrong Hope”. Is “Wrong Hope” right?

Nisha
01/20/2013

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

actually i disagree with u in this. cause men are same like women. u r a women and u r thinking like that.

as a men i think, we got weaker heart then women.

let me tell u frankly, no offense but women are bitch. they know how to play with heart, just like politics.